Self Help Articles
Self-Defeating Attitudes
Way's Of Thinking Which Hold You Back From Achieving Your Potential.
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In order to be happy, I must be accepted, liked, admired by all people at all times. |
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It's wonderful to be popular, famous, wealthy. |
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If I make a mistake, it means I'm inept. |
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My value as a person depends n what other people think of me. |
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If somebody disagrees with me, it means they don't like me. |
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I can't push myself, I'd only make mistakes. |
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I cannot change the way I am. |
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I am made to feel this way by circumstances and other people. |
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It is best to avoid anything that is unpleasant. |
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I have to do most of the things I do: I have no choice. |
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You have to manipulate people to get your way. |
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"Happiness" is all about getting the good things in life and avoiding the bad things. |
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You can't trust people; you have to be on your guard. |
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Change leads to insecurity. You stay secure for as long as you keep things you like fixed and unchanging. |
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In order to be happy, I have to be successful in whatever I undertake. |
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If I'm not on top, I'm a flop. |
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I should know, understand and foresee everything. |